@Brian-E said in #90:
The words you quote are actually mine because in the posting you are responding to, and several others posted at that time, the quoting went awry. So I'll respond to your response briefly.
Trans people have done pretty much the ultimate self-acceptance by acknowledging who they are. They have done that in the face of overwhelming rejection and hostility, even if they are in the most liberal and progressive societies on Earth. If you are looking for someone who really knows what self-awareness and self-acceptance is, look no further than a transgender person.
Trans people can't accept their biology. That's why they are trans.
They only accept that they don't identify with their biology. But they can't accept their biology. You cannot tell me that is not the case, that is literally what being trans is. Not accepting the biology you have because you "feel" another way.
Listen, I'll make one thing abundantly clear: I don't care about sexual preferences and I personally, don't care if I'm playing against a trans person. To me, it's all the same, its just a board game that I play for fun and I don't think anyone should be excluded from playing just because they are attracted to their own gender or have sexual dysphoria.
But the reality is, biological reality, is a reality, and men and women biologies, both physical and mental, are very different and by accepting that trans players should be accepted as women to play in the women's category, give's them a huge advantage.
And before you argue that there is no difference in male and female brain workings, actually there is and science has shown this consistently, just look up the IQ bell curve for males and females.
Trans players are as far as I know, allowed to compete in open tournaments, so they are not being excluded, they are allowed to play, and so there is really no issue here, other than trans players feelings being hurt because they aren't being recognised as their personal "identity".
If we should allow people to be included by their identity, then I identity as a GM and should be allowed to play in GM tournaments.
Would you be ok with that? Because that's what the argument is about, "Should people be able to identify as something and allowed to play under that identity even though the reality is that they don't actually qualify as that thing".
BTW, don't hate trans people, I want to make that abundantly clear, I have no enemies and I have no ideology or religious ties that would make me discriminate against anyone, I just accept reality and the reality is, trans women... are not biological women, they are biologically male and shouldn't be classified as females for purposes of sports in any shape or form.
Once again, we have open tournaments, literally for everyone, why can't you just accept that reality that trans people aren't excluded from chess, they just don't qualify as women for womens tournaments.
Otherwise if we're going to start letting people into tournaments based on self-identity and not on qualification, then literally anyone can enter a woman's tournament by saying "I identify as female (but I am masculine presenting if they don't bother trying to 'pass' ") and there literally won't be a need for a womens tournament anymore, it would just be an open tournament and once again, biological females are going to be marginalized and discriminated against, and I'm sure a kind and caring soul such as yourself, would never want to discriminate and marginalize women, right?
Because you respect women and you respect that they should have their own spaces to compete, right?
And if you seriously believe that trans-women accept who they are... then they should accept that they are not biological women and cannot compete with biological women.
@Brian-E said in #90:
> The words you quote are actually mine because in the posting you are responding to, and several others posted at that time, the quoting went awry. So I'll respond to your response briefly.
>
> Trans people have done pretty much the ultimate self-acceptance by acknowledging who they are. They have done that in the face of overwhelming rejection and hostility, even if they are in the most liberal and progressive societies on Earth. If you are looking for someone who really knows what self-awareness and self-acceptance is, look no further than a transgender person.
Trans people can't accept their biology. That's why they are trans.
They only accept that they don't identify with their biology. But they can't accept their biology. You cannot tell me that is not the case, that is literally what being trans *is*. Not accepting the biology you have because you "feel" another way.
Listen, I'll make one thing abundantly clear: I don't care about sexual preferences and I personally, don't care if I'm playing against a trans person. To me, it's all the same, its just a board game that I play for fun and I don't think anyone should be excluded from playing just because they are attracted to their own gender or have sexual dysphoria.
But the reality is, biological reality, is a reality, and men and women biologies, both physical and mental, are very different and by accepting that trans players should be accepted as women to play in the women's category, give's them a huge advantage.
And before you argue that there is no difference in male and female brain workings, actually there is and science has shown this consistently, just look up the IQ bell curve for males and females.
Trans players are as far as I know, allowed to compete in open tournaments, so they are not being excluded, they are allowed to play, and so there is really no issue here, other than trans players feelings being hurt because they aren't being recognised as their personal "identity".
If we should allow people to be included by their identity, then I identity as a GM and should be allowed to play in GM tournaments.
Would you be ok with that? Because that's what the argument is about, "Should people be able to identify as something and allowed to play under that identity even though the reality is that they don't actually qualify as that thing".
BTW, don't hate trans people, I want to make that abundantly clear, I have no enemies and I have no ideology or religious ties that would make me discriminate against anyone, I just accept reality and the reality is, trans women... are not biological women, they are biologically male and shouldn't be classified as females for purposes of sports in any shape or form.
Once again, we have open tournaments, literally for everyone, why can't you just accept that reality that trans people aren't excluded from chess, they just don't qualify as women for womens tournaments.
Otherwise if we're going to start letting people into tournaments based on self-identity and not on qualification, then literally anyone can enter a woman's tournament by saying "I identify as female (but I am masculine presenting if they don't bother trying to 'pass' ") and there literally won't be a need for a womens tournament anymore, it would just be an open tournament and once again, biological females are going to be marginalized and discriminated against, and I'm sure a kind and caring soul such as yourself, would never want to discriminate and marginalize women, right?
Because you respect women and you respect that they should have their own spaces to compete, right?
And if you seriously believe that trans-women accept who they are... then they should accept that they are not biological women and cannot compete with biological women.