When i blunder i forgive myself. If you don't forgive yourself, how could you forgive others? And if you can't forgive others when they fail - how could you live at all? You know exactly that humans commit errors many times, and you know that you are a human.
If you commit errors in chess you loose a game. No less, but no more. If you can't forgive yourself to loose a game cause you played bad - what do you forgive other people? Your familly? The one you love?
If you begin a game then fight like this is the most important moment in your life. Cause for the duration of that game that should be true. But if the game has ended, then the importance of that game has come to an end too. If you can't forgive yourself to loose that game cause you played bad then you are a fool. No matter how good you are in chess. Learn from your mistakes if posdible, that is important. But alway forgive yopurself what you have done.
You will commit much more severe mistakes in life and you are in due need to forgive that errors to you . Cause if not - life becomes dark. Very dark. Don't do that to you and the people who loves you.






