@mdobrasi said in #777:
> @QueenRosieMary i know it's also my private problem and as i said won't i can't force chats.
> But please unblock our chats, I'm begging you.
> I promise you i won't talk anything inappropriate.
> I'm weak I'll admit it in public, but I won't harrass you.
Since you don't planning on forcing chats, then why are you asking on a public forum? People block others for a reason, not just because they felt like it. And I know I personally wouldn't unblock somebody because they asked repeatedly in multiple different public forums...
Its a strange one for sure, I guess it is possible it is ok ??
However it reminds me of some men who just will not take no for an answer in real life
My "will you marry me man" did not have a problem with it, so I have no problem with him
It isn't very helpful to keep on "trying" when you have had a clear "no thank you"
Nor, to be blunt , is it very "attractive"
@greenteakitten and @Tbootpoo nice postings.
I agree people block other with a reason, but sometimes the reason can just be mutual misunderstanding. I also know begging women to show me mercy in life didn't go well, it helped only once.
On the other hand @QueenRosieMary with begging, I also admire your personality charachter, by not letting me go with my wishes. It means you have confidence in yourself.
It's also related to the topic. When violant guy in life askes his girlfrend/wife to return to him, promising he won't do it agian, most of them do the same deeds again. It's an unfortunate truth.
And why exacty do you think that is mister mdobrasi ?
Could it have something to do with having to live with your children in a refuge do you think ?
No money ? no home, children having their lives totally disrupted maybe ?
And of course fear
What do you prefer to think it is about ?
Hello again, I've been somewhat keeping up with the forum but lately I've been busy, I didn't plan on being gone from the forum for so long!!
I see that so much has happened, some of it is great some of it is not.
I know this should probably go on a separate forum or a separate conversation but I've been sort of thinking on my identity and what I want to go by, and I suppose I want to explain so nobody has any confusion when referring to me :p
So when I first started posting here I went by he/him since identifying as being a trans dude seemed to be what was right, or at least what was the most easy to describe to people, I had been nonbinary for a while (TBH THAT DID NOT FEEL RIGHT EITHER) but I live in a really conservative area, so lots of people don't even really understand me now. The more I think about it, the more I'm unsure if I really want to transition. I'm a minor by the way (I meant to say I have time to think on it after this, idk where my brain went for a minute), I know I never mentioned it before but please don't be creepy I know there are a lot of adults here. For now just call me by anything, I know that sounds kind of confusing but I'm also not sure about anything, ever.
ON ANOTHER NOTE
I see new people have joined since I last posted, hi I did exist for a while on here before taking a little break. I think I really needed to for school and such. I probably won't be on here as often as I was before.
@mdobrasi while I would like to say that I would like to know more about your opinions, you really seem to just be here to message people one on one, which is not what this page is about (at least I'm pretty sure it isn't for that). Please know that when somebody tells you no, believe them the first time. THANK YEW x)
@Tbootpoo said in #782:
> It isn't very helpful to keep on "trying" when you have had a clear "no thank you"
>
> Nor, to be blunt , is it very "attractive"
Truer words may have never been spoken, I really dislike people who don't know how to cope with being told no, as if they have had everything they've ever wanted in their life. I think some people lack the basic understanding of empathy unfortunately, and they cannot put themselves in the shoes of the person they are talking to. Treat others how they want to be treated!!
@mdobrasi said in #783:
> @greenteakitten and @Tbootpoo nice postings.
> I agree people block other with a reason, but sometimes the reason can just be mutual misunderstanding. I also know begging women to show me mercy in life didn't go well, it helped only once.
So just to be clear, for the benefit of others who are following, there has been no misunderstanding here. What you said to me was absolutely crystal clear, and I did appreciate your openness and candour about what you had done and planned to do on your various accounts, and the results of those actions. Begging on an open forum is not very dignified, please, have some self-respect! And please respect me too when I say that I don't want to message you on any of your accounts. On that note, when someone says "no" you should respect that the first time, as others have said.
> On the other hand @QueenRosieMary with begging, I also admire your personality charachter, by not letting me go with my wishes. It means you have confidence in yourself.
Asking me for a chat but admiring me for saying no, this is strange but ok...
> It's also related to the topic. When violant guy in life askes his girlfrend/wife to return to him, promising he won't do it agian, most of them do the same deeds again. It's an unfortunate truth.
So are you saying I shouldn't believe you too?
Anyway, I think we can draw a line under this one now.
Wow this is one of the biggest forum pages I have seen. I doubt I will be able to read all of this.
mdobrasi
This account is closed.
That's a pity in some ways, I thought we had gotten to an interesting moment
But it has to be his choice
@MagicalPlague said in #788:
> Wow this is one of the biggest forum pages I have seen. I doubt I will be able to read all of this.
Grab a comfy chair and a large bag of popcorn if you do :D