Your opponent is dealing with the exact same clock as you. Why do you feel like you deserve extra time for playing slower?
@inalansyen said in #1:
> I see chess as a game of resources, a strategy game that consist of more than just the moves. You play the role of converting time into move quality. Overspend, and you will likely earn a winning position, but you will end up running out of your resources and lose. Underspend, and you will have a lot of time saved up, like a rich country without a military being invaded. You lose.
Okay, and all your opponent did is sacrifice move quality for time. He saw you were making better moves but that it was taking you significantly longer to do so. He took a risk that if he made worse moves faster, he could maintain a losing position for long enough to flag you before mate.
To use your analogy, he dragged you into a war of attrition and managed to get your resources to dwindle out before his despite being outgunned.