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Do guys play differently when playing against girls or women?

#32

I don't think I do..... I might try a little harder, but that's cause there better than me lol, and some are lower rated than me. So I might be more inclined to give a take back or something. But I usually do that for anyone lower rated, so maybe not any different. \(•_•)/

I don't think I do..... I might try a little harder, but that's cause there better than me lol, and some are lower rated than me. So I might be more inclined to give a take back or something. But I usually do that for anyone lower rated, so maybe not any different. `\(•_•)/`
#33

@Darshil1214 said in #25:

Some people just have an aura around them that makes you nervous

Ya. girl peoples.....

(It's a Joke)

@Darshil1214 said in #25: > Some people just have an aura around them that makes you nervous Ya. girl peoples..... (It's a Joke)
#33

@FlaggedGirl said in #1:

I was just wondering because I've heard about this before I just don't know if it is true. Like is the play style or anything else different?

Well, in terms of whether male players in general play differently against female players, I think it's a pretty wild question, because no one can say for certain that every male player does.

I mean, making a blanket statement about how male players compete against female opponents is risky, as individual results can vary greatly. It's impossible to assume that all male players behave in the same way when facing female opponents, as each match can be influenced by a unique combo of factors.

People's approaches to the game can differ depending on who they're playing against, so "some" guys may play differently, whether they're taking it easy or going all out. I believe this variation in approach can stem from a range of factors, including personal preferences, the level of competition and even the desire to be a good sport.

For instance, in a casual setting, some male players may intentionally ease up on their game when facing female opponents (those rated lower), not out of any inherent bias or lack of respect, but rather as a way to show empathy and understanding. Some may interpret this act as simply being "nice," whereas others may see it differently.

On the other hand, others might feel pressure to perform at their best, regardless of their opponent's gender, in order to maintain their own level of competitiveness and such.

This topic reminds me of a video I once came across on YouTube, where Magnus Carlsen and Judith Polgar (supposedly the strongest player in the women's category) played a casual match in Madrid. The atmosphere was pretty relaxed, with several spectators gathered around them, observing the match with keen interest. In the video, Magnus is seen underperforming and losing in just under 20 moves. He appeared to be laughing, seemingly unfazed by his losing position — just rolling with it. He seemed to have enjoyed hanging out with everyone and supposedly congratulated Judith after the game.

Here's a link to the video for your convenience:

https://youtu.be/DEmlgy1gRKs?si=REGDb9_IS4uJuHL1

A number of people were left wondering whether Magnus had let her have it, given his good track record. Others believe he was simply tricked during the game by the fellow GM. Judith, on the other hand, seemed proud of her gameplay, taking to social media to share the footage of her victory against Magnus in the causal meet-up, complete with commentary for her fans (on a separate clip).

Is it safe to say that Magnus played differently due to the fact that Judith was involved, or simply didn't take the game as seriously as he would in a professional setting? While I lean toward the latter, it is also possible that it was the former (I can't be certain on that).

The point is that some people may play differently depending on the environment or who they're up against, whether it's gender-based or limited to specific individuals.

As for me personally, my performance against female opponents in general doesn't change. I reckon that people who discover that their opponents deliberately go easy on them may find it somewhat disrespectful, whereas their opponent might mean well, by simply not going all out, as they don't necessarily mean to be disrespectful. Regardless, I'd say my performance is rather gender blind. Ultimately, the goal of any game should be to have fun and enjoy the experience.

@FlaggedGirl said in #1: > I was just wondering because I've heard about this before I just don't know if it is true. Like is the play style or anything else different? Well, in terms of whether male players in general play differently against female players, I think it's a pretty wild question, because no one can say for certain that every male player does. I mean, making a blanket statement about how male players compete against female opponents is risky, as individual results can vary greatly. It's impossible to assume that all male players behave in the same way when facing female opponents, as each match can be influenced by a unique combo of factors. People's approaches to the game can differ depending on who they're playing against, so "some" guys may play differently, whether they're taking it easy or going all out. I believe this variation in approach can stem from a range of factors, including personal preferences, the level of competition and even the desire to be a good sport. For instance, in a casual setting, some male players may intentionally ease up on their game when facing female opponents (those rated lower), not out of any inherent bias or lack of respect, but rather as a way to show empathy and understanding. Some may interpret this act as simply being "nice," whereas others may see it differently. On the other hand, others might feel pressure to perform at their best, regardless of their opponent's gender, in order to maintain their own level of competitiveness and such. This topic reminds me of a video I once came across on YouTube, where Magnus Carlsen and Judith Polgar (supposedly the strongest player in the women's category) played a casual match in Madrid. The atmosphere was pretty relaxed, with several spectators gathered around them, observing the match with keen interest. In the video, Magnus is seen underperforming and losing in just under 20 moves. He appeared to be laughing, seemingly unfazed by his losing position — just rolling with it. He seemed to have enjoyed hanging out with everyone and supposedly congratulated Judith after the game. Here's a link to the video for your convenience: https://youtu.be/DEmlgy1gRKs?si=REGDb9_IS4uJuHL1 A number of people were left wondering whether Magnus had let her have it, given his good track record. Others believe he was simply tricked during the game by the fellow GM. Judith, on the other hand, seemed proud of her gameplay, taking to social media to share the footage of her victory against Magnus in the causal meet-up, complete with commentary for her fans (on a separate clip). Is it safe to say that Magnus played differently due to the fact that Judith was involved, or simply didn't take the game as seriously as he would in a professional setting? While I lean toward the latter, it is also possible that it was the former (I can't be certain on that). The point is that some people may play differently depending on the environment or who they're up against, whether it's gender-based or limited to specific individuals. As for me personally, my performance against female opponents in general doesn't change. I reckon that people who discover that their opponents deliberately go easy on them may find it somewhat disrespectful, whereas their opponent might mean well, by simply not going all out, as they don't necessarily mean to be disrespectful. Regardless, I'd say my performance is rather gender blind. Ultimately, the goal of any game should be to have fun and enjoy the experience.
#34

@greenteakitten said in #17:

I think there was a study done somewhere that female chess players tend to do worse when they know they are playing against a male chess player, than when they don't know and think they are playing against another female chess player.

Not sure how valid that study is though. (Also it doesn't really answer your question.)

Yes. The evidence supports that conclusion.

https://www.bing.com/search?q=women+against+men+chess&form=ANNTH1&refig=6872758fc00e46eeb9401a9df6bfbd79&pc=U531

@greenteakitten said in #17: > I think there was a study done somewhere that female chess players tend to do worse when they know they are playing against a male chess player, than when they don't know and think they are playing against another female chess player. > > Not sure how valid that study is though. (Also it doesn't really answer your question.) Yes. The evidence supports that conclusion. https://www.bing.com/search?q=women+against+men+chess&form=ANNTH1&refig=6872758fc00e46eeb9401a9df6bfbd79&pc=U531
#35

I guess I don't need to play differently against women, as when my name shows up as their opponent, a lot usually swoon, obviously! , so are unable to play after that. :). lol

I guess I don't need to play differently against women, as when my name shows up as their opponent, a lot usually swoon, obviously! , so are unable to play after that. :). lol
#37

@PeterSkeets said in #30:

easier to climb when you weigh 50kg. smallness helps in climbing, caving, chimney sweeping, horse jockeying too

Easier to be stronger when you can build muscles faster and bigger. Muscles help in athletics, boxing, lifting, going to war too.

@PeterSkeets said in #30: > easier to climb when you weigh 50kg. smallness helps in climbing, caving, chimney sweeping, horse jockeying too Easier to be stronger when you can build muscles faster and bigger. Muscles help in athletics, boxing, lifting, going to war too.
#38

Once in a while I might say "show me what you got," "I'll bite" or something similar when accepting a sacrifice during a casual game. Can't recall saying that to a girl, but I would.

Once in a while I might say "show me what you got," "I'll bite" or something similar when accepting a sacrifice during a casual game. Can't recall saying that to a girl, but I would.
#39

Do guys play differently when playing against girls or women? No. Except that the man is really very stupid.

Do guys play differently when playing against girls or women? No. Except that the man is really very stupid.

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