Be a sport and accept a takeback or two ---to before the blunder.

@lurarose

You nailed it. That's the whole point, Lurarose. I certainly don't advocate multiple takebacks as the OP suggested. I don't suggest takebacks on "I saw a better move after I moved" or the case today where the dude made a bad move, waited to see if I'd play the line, and when I did, instantly after I played, suggested a takeback. These kinds of instances are a no-fly.

But for obvious slips, the majority of which stem from illnesses? It's not taking pity. It's simply good sportsmanship, strong character, and investing in the lichess community. Every instance of good character and positivity increases the scope and stock of the LiChess community. Every instance of negativity decreases the scope of LiChess.

We want more of the former, less of the latter. It's that simple.

Be as friendly as possible, play strong chess, enjoy the community.

I saw people suggesting a "character rating". That actually might be something worth looking into.

If a system like that were implemented, I would strongly suggest that you get x3 points for newcomers with a "?" behind their ELO score who give you a thumbs up.

First impressions are like moves in the opening. They're particularly valuable.

The precedent of good character will set a protocol of good character.

I have played vs some people that want a take back like every 3-5 moves... These are my favorite people to beat. Because if they had 10 take backs, and you still win... That's more than a win, that's a beatdown.

Also want to add, I might be willing to accept a bit more take backs in rated games if doing so meant that you are able to claim draw at any point after that automatically. I don't think it's fair for a player who gets a take back to earn a full point.

Why do people play blitz if they aren‘t skilled enough and expect full comprehensive insurance from the opponent?

In the spirit of sport/chess is that one doesn‘t bother the opponent, by no means.

Play slower or with move confirmation but DON‘T BOTHER YOUR OPPONENT WITH YOUR PERSONAL FAULT.

Guilty of:

-playing faster as skilled
-inappropriate period
-not using move confirmation
-bothering the opponent for the record
-complaining about personal faults

So that’s a classic multiple-point anti-sport behaviour which is not in the spirit of chess, sports and computer-games.

PS: Well, you can do that playing with your grandpa in the armchair but it is not fair towards unknown players who want to fight on the board without being bothered.

Take personal responsibility for your bad choices. Don't blame your opponent for wanting to win.

Once again, you're stuck trying to convince people that being a miser against an 11 year old kid, on meds, is good form.
Good luck with that case.

Just about as rational as, "you're welcome to come play with us, here, where there are some cheaters."

Your points, your points, your points.

Your points are your fingers, the online chess community is your hand.

And there you are, sawing away at your hand, furiously, to save your fingers.

Tsk.

It's all about the points man, THE POINTS!

JUST GIMME THE POINTS AND NOBODY GETS HURT!!!

If I had requested a takeback (and given or not) I couldn‘t sleep that night. Because deep inside I would know that I am no sportsman.

@Sarg0n You should disable all takebacks. To do this go to the top left menu. Using your mouse, left click on your username on the top left menu then click Preferences -> on the left side menu choose Game behavior ->Takebacks (with opponent approval) -> Never.
I have done it long ago. It should solve all your problems.

So did I.

Sorry, if it was ambiguous. I would never ask and I don‘t want to be asked. Like a pro. :)

I don't take online chess super seriously, so I'd be fine to give a takeback as long as it was for a mouseslip. I don't give takebacks for missing ideas though, unless they are a friend.