What would be worse then NOT having a GF? • page 3/6 • Off-Topic Discussion • lichess.org

also try to go to folk dances. you might be able to get a GF

This is hard to swallow, but I believe it is valid advice: Don't worry about getting a gf (or bf or signif other or major squeeze or whatever). It ain't worth the heartache. Focus on your own personal growth, try to become your own best you. The gf/bf/whatever will come along eventually. Trust me; if there's one thing nature abhors more than a vacuum, it's an incomplete narrative.

Which isn't to say that all narratives are well written in the stars. They certainly aren't. They are constantly miswritten by foolish gods and more foolish mortals who mistake now for eternity. Which leads me to the quick and dirty answer to the OP: What's worse than not having a gf (or bf or whatever) is being in a toxic, mutually destructive relationship, one that cries for getting out fast.

This is hard to swallow, but I believe it is valid advice: Don't worry about getting a gf (or bf or signif other or major squeeze or whatever). It ain't worth the heartache. Focus on your own personal growth, try to become your own best you. The gf/bf/whatever will come along eventually. Trust me; if there's one thing nature abhors more than a vacuum, it's an incomplete narrative. Which isn't to say that all narratives are well written in the stars. They certainly aren't. They are constantly miswritten by foolish gods and more foolish mortals who mistake now for eternity. Which leads me to the quick and dirty answer to the OP: What's worse than not having a gf (or bf or whatever) is being in a toxic, mutually destructive relationship, one that cries for getting out fast.

amomentspause

#23

@Noob_F0X1 said in #1:

For me that was bad enough but I never had a real gf once so I'm asking to know what is others opinion

to those who read and reply: Hi!

Having a boyfriend

@Noob_F0X1 said in #1: > For me that was bad enough but I never had a real gf once so I'm asking to know what is others opinion > > to those who read and reply: Hi! Having a boyfriend

fallboss007

#24

@FilPatek said in #19:

I don’t try to have a gf

Why??

I will find one that is for me, and I don’t need to search, it will come.

@FilPatek said in #19: > > I don’t try to have a gf > > Why?? I will find one that is for me, and I don’t need to search, it will come.

#25

hcp_pro

#26

no point of saying anything to attention seekers, imitating as activists ;-;

DogyBrown

#27

Depends on what age,If you dont have a gf and you are still going to school,Getting bullyied is worse than having no girlfriend

Shadow1414

#28

#Title: Being force-fed medicine in a mental hospital, with the reason being that you are not ready to commit suicide by entering war.

Noob_F0X1

#29

@CrosbyCarter said in #20:

but a LOT of girls like me

same as me but im just not into them.. does that sounds bad?

I like other girl but some other "other" girl like me. thats actually sounds bad right?

@CrosbyCarter said in #20: > but a LOT of girls like me same as me but im just not into them.. does that sounds bad? I like other girl but some other "other" girl like me. thats actually sounds bad right?

Noob_F0X1

#30

@CrosbyCarter said in #21:

also try to go to folk dances. you might be able to get a GF

bro country was a Muslim country, I never heard a Muslim country have a folk dance and I never heard there's one nearby or in my country. thats a harsh

Plus even if there is one, my parents won't let me be there cause they strict on me about a relationship topic.

nice suggestion btw have ever be in it once?

@CrosbyCarter said in #21: > also try to go to folk dances. you might be able to get a GF bro country was a Muslim country, I never heard a Muslim country have a folk dance and I never heard there's one nearby or in my country. thats a harsh Plus even if there is one, my parents won't let me be there cause they strict on me about a relationship topic. nice suggestion btw have ever be in it once?