@MohammedElasha said in #1:
> My girlfriend got pregnant accidentally what should I do?
It definitely couldn't have been accidental! It was on purpose, people can't do that accidentally. Best thing you can do is accept it, and become a dad.
@wowbagger said in #8:
> Just get an abortion. Sometimes, when she already had 2 abortions the third one is for free.
Not a good suggestion. If she wants to abort, then fine. If not then let her keep it.
@MohammedElasha said in #1:
> My girlfriend got pregnant accidentally what should I do?
wait what???. how can somone get pregnant by mistake... seriously how??.
and isn't fornication a sin.. wth
@MohammedElasha
you're a muslim are you kidding me.. this has to be a joke.. right?, wth
For people who don't get it: Birth control and condoms are not 100% effective. No protection will ever be 100% there. The only way to guarantee no baby is abstinence and/or surgery to remove reproductive organs.
So yes, accidental pregnancy is completely possible.
Source: Me, born from birth control pill failure ;)
@greenteakitten said in #16:
> For people who don't get it: Birth control and condoms are not 100% effective. No protection will ever be 100% there. The only way to guarantee no baby is abstinence and/or surgery to remove reproductive organs.
>
> So yes, accidental pregnancy is completely possible.
in the first place why do it without marriage.. this is sinful and blasphemous urghhh
I'm not condoning it. I don't think people should make commitments before actually commiting to each other. But clearly the damage is done, so I agree with Dukedog and others on how to move forward here.
@Dukedog said in #4:
> Sometimes we just have to choose to do the right thing
> Rather than the easy thing
Agreed, although what "the easy thing" is might depend on people.
One will just go with the flow and birth a kid that they didn't want to raise, making their life miserable. That ain't right.
One will run away and leave his girlfriend to become a single mom. That ain't right.
One will get an unwanted abortion to avoid becoming a single mom. That ain't right.
In any case the girlfriend is the one going through pregnancy, and at the end of the day the decision to do it or not should be hers.
And whatever this decision is, the man who got her pregnant should be supportive of it -- whether it involves becoming a father or renouncing to become one.
@UbiquitousUser said in #14:
> and isn't fornication a sin.. wth
Fornication is amazing :)
@greenteakitten said in #16:
> The only way to guarantee no baby is abstinence and/or surgery to remove reproductive organs.
Or to have exclusively homosexual relations :)