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Is there something wrong with me or my posts?

It feels like often when I post in a thread it dies shortly afterwards or very few people post in it afterwards.
Is it me? Do people feel uncomfortable when they see my posts?
I know I'm a very serious person but does that make others feel bad?
Will you give me an honest answer or opinion?
Yes. There's something wrong with you and your posts.
@shadow1414 Hi, I am not certain of the answer to your first three questions. Forums can be fun, I have been able to cultivate some diverse interests such as reading on different subjects and music, listening and playing. I remember in one your earlier forums you mentioned having different interests, too Maybe, its not always important the number of replies that you receive. Today while I'm doing errands and cleaning I'm listening to old jazz and planning reading for later.
@shadow1414 about the thread dying: I'm not sure I have noticed any trend but it may just be a coincidence. Don't worry about that.
I don't think we feel uncomfortable with your posts, but if you say you're usually serious, you might wanna change it up a little and be light hearted. It's a place to have fun. So enjoy! :D
@shadow1414 It has nothing to do with you; it has to do with the topic being discussed. If I post about a book that nobody else has read, nobody will have anything to say about the book, so they won't post. If others have something to say about what you wrote, only then will they post.
@morphyms1817.
You mean "too many maybe"?
" its not always important the number of replies that you receive" I was referring to posts after mine. Not just replies.
@CreativeThinking.
"it may just be a coincidence" I know it might be but I take everything so seriously that almost every small detail gets to me.
"if you say you're usually serious, you might wanna change it up a little and be light hearted" Seriousness is a personality trait though. It's not something you can just change. Unless I'm wrong.
Thanks for the replies both of you. It means a lot.
damn you guessed it. so its not a secret anymore now: yep, everybody hates you.

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