@BaronVonChickenpants said in #49:
> #46 - WTAF! This demonstrates pretty much all the complaints raised in the initial post. "It's your own fault, you are too social, keep your head down, keep a low profile" . Why should /anyone/ have to do that just to play chess without harassment?
1) You call this harassment?
2) Well, by the way, it’s generally unclear what the author of the blog considers violence. Invitation to the team? Watching her games? Friend proposal?
3) You still have to agree that not all people put their photo on their profile.
And finally, I answer your question.
Yes, because the world works that way.
If you don't hide your jewelry well and go on the subway during rush hour, they may be stolen. Will this be your fault?
I would answer that, naturally, the thief is to blame, however, since there are a lot of such thieves and you know it, you will also be to blame for this.
Or here's an even more obvious example.
If you are balancing on the edge of the roof of a high-rise building, there is a chance that you will fall and die. Who is to blame for this - you or the laws of nature?
Therefore, I believe that there is no need to try to change the laws of nature and complain about them, or ban all suspicious people from traveling on the subway (at the same time, simultaneously insulting those people who seemed “suspicious”). I think you just need to know this and be more careful.
And yes. “harassment” on a chess website should not be considered a problem at all. Just block the person and the problem is solved.