Thanks I guess
Why do something that produces such anxiety? Go and enjoy life my friend! Chess is a game, only a game.
@CheckmateAuthority said in #1:
> Hi there.
> I've been playing chess for more than a year, and anytime I play, my life gets significantly worse. It brings me indescribable pain and frustration. I got absurdly intense imposter syndrome after loosing games (and accidentaly fracturing my hand when smashing my table). Win doesn't bring me any happiness - so that's a combo I guess :D. But, for whatever reason I just won't stop playing. I may give myself a break for a few days but then comeback - having great games, going as high as 1700 hundred blitz on lichess (another account, obviously). Then losing one game and spiral into frustration. I have no idea what's wrong with me. Have you ever witnessed (or god forbid experience) something similar? This poor attitude I have when I deal with chess is drastically different to other areas of live, so no, I don't have a "generally" bad personality (or, at least, I hope so :/).
après 1 an de découverte en compétition, je fais le même constat. Le jeu en lui même est très bien mais les sites voleurs (autant que chess.com que lichess) qui détournent l'argent pour leur propre compte supportent et encourage la tricherie.
Je n'avais jamais rencontré un environnement et une communauté aussi toxique, tant au niveau des joueurs qu'au niveau des développeurs.
Comment peut-on laisser la quasi totalité de sa communauté tricher sans que personne ne fasse rien ? J'avais déjà remarqué la communauté n'aimait pas que l'on critique "son" jeu, un peu noble mais je ne m'attendais pas à un tel retard et de déni sans cette secte.
La plupart n'ont même pas conscience que la triche est le maitre mot des échecs en ligne, rien qu'aujourd'hui j'ai filmé et reporté toutes mes parties, pas un seul joueur n'a joué tous ces coups légalement.
Sur les 3 derniers mois, j'ai filmé et repéré 503 joueurs sur 555 rencontrés. Plus de 5 000 en 1 ans et 10 000 sur l'ensemble des comptes.
Conclusion, je stoppe, irl aussi et je laisse cet environnement toxique aux gens que ça peut plaire. J'ai proposé des solutions, j'ai démontré en stream que l'on peut tricher impunément (j'ai streamé une cinquantaine de parties en trichants, beaucoup) et rien n'a été fait. Personne n'est capable de le voir.
C'est dommage. Un si beau jeu qui se retrouvera sans avenir (ou lorsque les sites auront perdu leur communauté et seront obligés de mettre des actions en place pour ne pas fermer).
Logiciel pour filmer le pc des autres : theOneSpy, vous récupérez l'ip et c'est bon.
I think you should play less games per day. I also play only 1 game per day to avoid losing too much. And I think slower time control is helpful, it helps to deal win or lose in short time.
Welcome to the club.
@RationalisedInteger said in #6:
> Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee i dont care ur trash Im better than yall noobs
Dude you are trash to call someone else trash.
@CheckmateAuthority said in #1:
> Hi there.
> I've been playing chess for more than a year, and anytime I play, my life gets significantly worse. It brings me indescribable pain and frustration. I got absurdly intense imposter syndrome after loosing games (and accidentaly fracturing my hand when smashing my table). Win doesn't bring me any happiness - so that's a combo I guess :D. But, for whatever reason I just won't stop playing. I may give myself a break for a few days but then comeback - having great games, going as high as 1700 hundred blitz on lichess (another account, obviously). Then losing one game and spiral into frustration. I have no idea what's wrong with me. Have you ever witnessed (or god forbid experience) something similar? This poor attitude I have when I deal with chess is drastically different to other areas of live, so no, I don't have a "generally" bad personality (or, at least, I hope so :/).
Hey, I think you're addicted to chess like me. Play less games a day so you can avoid loosing so many points.
The best thing for you to do is take a break from chess and come back after few months. Because you're clearly addicted to chess, that's why you can't stop even if you want to stop.
take a long break, then come back
@RationalisedInteger said in #6:
> Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee i dont care ur trash Im better than yall noobs
What a trash! Really if I knew you in real life, I would have picked you up and put you in trash instead and a person who belongs to the trash is never better than good people.
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