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@EmY48 said in #27:
> You make us people look like we are mindless. We have a mind, we can control our thoughts, we should.
> If you are attracted to your neighbours wife, what do you do? Control your mind or say " this is it, it is inevitable " ? Maybe some people feel attracted to trees.
> You cannot stop a crow from going over your head, but you can stop it from making a nest on your head.
> Attraction is not apocalyptic, we can control our mind if we want to.

your point is? someone would control their sexual/romantic attraction to their neighbour’s wife because it’s totally a dick move to knock up someone already in a relationship, even if they wanted to, which is 99.9% no. but are you saying there’s something inherently wrong and harmful to anyone if two people are in a same-sex relationship?
you seem to be saying that some people may be attracted to people of the same sex, but they should control those feelings. WHY SHOULD THEY??!!??!!!?!?!?!?!??!!?? no harm is being done. let people live as they want as long as nothing bad comes of it.
@CalbernandHowbe said in #31:
> your point is? someone would control their sexual/romantic attraction to their neighbour’s wife because it’s totally a dick move to knock up someone already in a relationship, even if they wanted to, which is 99.9% no. but are you saying there’s something inherently wrong and harmful to anyone if two people are in a same-sex relationship?
> you seem to be saying that some people may be attracted to people of the same sex, but they should control those feelings. WHY SHOULD THEY??!!??!!!?!?!?!?!??!!?? no harm is being done. let people live as they want as long as nothing bad comes of it.
Did you read what I responded to? Someone was saying that if you are attracted to someone, that is it, you are doomed. This however is not true.
Regarding letting people live as they want, my pleasure, I do not stop someone from doing as it pleases them. I will express my opinion but not stop people from acting from free will.
i read #25 and certainly wasn’t seeing any sense of doom in that, but fair enough i can see where you are coming from
@Nomen-Nonatur said in #30:
> People celebrating their sexual orientation (whatever it is) or other traits they are born with are just self-adulating morons.
I wasn't quite in track of who said what, but what would be wrong about that, when a bunch of other days too exists for similar reasons, eg Father's Day and Mother's day? Teacher's Day and Christmas?
@SANTNED said in #23:
> The only two genders that are possible to be born with is Male and Female.
That isn't what we reffer to as gender, I believe. That I believe is what we reffer to as "sex". Gender on the other hand is about attraction. Nevertheless, I think there were claims about people having both sexual organs, therefore your claim may still be wrong if you meant sexual organs.
@EmY48 said in #27:
> You make us people look like we are mindless. We have a mind, we can control our thoughts, we should.
> If you are attracted to your neighbours wife, what do you do? Control your mind or say " this is it, it is inevitable " ? Maybe some people feel attracted to trees.
> You cannot stop a crow from going over your head, but you can stop it from making a nest on your head.
> Attraction is not apocalyptic, we can control our mind if we want to.

number 1, I don’t like how you say “we ppl” when it’s obvious that I’m part of it too.
number 2, I never said you can’t control it. You can control youre actions, not youre heart.
@EmY48 said in #32:
> Did you read what I responded to? Someone was saying that if you are attracted to someone, that is it, you are doomed. This however is not true.
> Regarding letting people live as they want, my pleasure, I do not stop someone from doing as it pleases them. I will express my opinion but not stop people from acting from free will.
when did I say that you’re doomed? All I said was you can’t control what you feel, and being fruity isn’t a choice??? I never said you have to act upon it!!
Every time there is a thread about LQBTQ it attracts homophobic morons like a bunch of flies, who have nothing better to say than to spread their hate.
@harshab said in #35:
> number 1, I don’t like how you say “we ppl” when it’s obvious that I’m part of it too.
> number 2, I never said you can’t control it. You can control youre actions, not youre heart.
1. English is not my native language. Did not mean to exclude you, sorry
2. Oh yes you can control your heart. This is the primary reason for unhappiness in our age, running after feelings and the heart.
If you will listen only to your heart you will abandon relationships every 6 months at best because you got bored
We have a mind too.
Love is an action, if you love you act, you must lead your heart and feelings by making a decision to love
So, my advice, don't run after your heart but lead your heart
@harshab said in #36:
> when did I say that you’re doomed? All I said was you can’t control what you feel, and being fruity isn’t a choice??? I never said you have to act upon it!!
Sorry, I do not understand the word fruity.

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