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Recently I played one game and lose and then asked for rematch, but my opponent decline it and run away. After a few days we played again and this time I win and he asked for rematch. I asked him why I have to accept his rematch when I win if he didn't accept my rematch when I lose and he blocked me. And this is already second player in a few days who act the same way.

What's wrong with people? Why it is so hard for some players to treat others the way they would like to be treated?
How can I avoid being blocked and play fair chess at the same time?

Accept rematches against players who don't accept rematches when they win is not a fair chess at all.

Recently I played one game and lose and then asked for rematch, but my opponent decline it and run away. After a few days we played again and this time I win and he asked for rematch. I asked him why I have to accept his rematch when I win if he didn't accept my rematch when I lose and he blocked me. And this is already second player in a few days who act the same way. What's wrong with people? Why it is so hard for some players to treat others the way they would like to be treated? How can I avoid being blocked and play fair chess at the same time? Accept rematches against players who don't accept rematches when they win is not a fair chess at all.

That's just how the world works, mate.

That's just how the world works, mate.

Could be any number of reasons the guy didn't want to rematch that first time. I wouldn't take it so personally mate.

Could be any number of reasons the guy didn't want to rematch that first time. I wouldn't take it so personally mate.

Everyone wants to show coolness over the weak, but when it is done to them, they get offended

Everyone wants to show coolness over the weak, but when it is done to them, they get offended

@SuperiorWood
Not when player run away and play next game right after that and if he loses he ask for rematch.
I'm just a bit stunned by these actions and how often they started to appear lately.

And I'm ok if you satisfied if others treat you the same way. But if you get offended when someone did the same thing that you did to him - that strange.
He wanted me to block him same like he did it to me or what... I don't get it.

@SuperiorWood Not when player run away and play next game right after that and if he loses he ask for rematch. I'm just a bit stunned by these actions and how often they started to appear lately. And I'm ok if you satisfied if others treat you the same way. But if you get offended when someone did the same thing that you did to him - that strange. He wanted me to block him same like he did it to me or what... I don't get it.

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