@shashankfromindia said in #27:
> #cfbr
Bringing you back, again and again, to the point.
@shashankfromindia said in #17:
> C. S. Lewis in Surprised by Joy:
> "But the essential evil of public school life, as I see it, did not lie
> either in the sufferings of the fags or in the privileged arrogance
> of the Bloods. These were symptoms of something more
> all-pervasive, something which, in the long run, did most
> harm to the boys who succeeded best at school and were
> happiest there. Spiritually speaking, the deadly thing was that
> school life was a life almost wholly dominated by the social
> struggle; to get on, to arrive, or, having reached the top, to
> remain there, was the absorbing preoccupation. It is often, of
> course, the preoccupation of adult life as well; but I have not yet
> seen any adult society in which the surrender to this impulse
> was so total. And from it, at school as in the world, all sorts of
> meanness flow; the sycophancy that courts those higher in the
> scale, the cultivation of those whom it is well to know, the
> speedy abandonment of friendships that will not help on the
> upward path, the readiness to join the cry against the unpopular,
> the secret motive in almost every action. The Wyvernians seem
> to me in retrospect to have been the least spontaneous, in that
> sense the least boyish, society I have ever known. It would
> perhaps not be too much to say that in some boys’ lives
> everything was calculated to the great end of advancement. For
> this games were played; for this clothes, friends, amusements,
> and vices were chosen."
@shashankfromindia said in #18:
>
> #cfbr
Bringing you back, again and again, to the point.
@shashankfromindia said in #17:
> C. S. Lewis in Surprised by Joy:
> "But the essential evil of public school life, as I see it, did not lie
> either in the sufferings of the fags or in the privileged arrogance
> of the Bloods. These were symptoms of something more
> all-pervasive, something which, in the long run, did most
> harm to the boys who succeeded best at school and were
> happiest there. Spiritually speaking, the deadly thing was that
> school life was a life almost wholly dominated by the social
> struggle; to get on, to arrive, or, having reached the top, to
> remain there, was the absorbing preoccupation. It is often, of
> course, the preoccupation of adult life as well; but I have not yet
> seen any adult society in which the surrender to this impulse
> was so total. And from it, at school as in the world, all sorts of
> meanness flow; the sycophancy that courts those higher in the
> scale, the cultivation of those whom it is well to know, the
> speedy abandonment of friendships that will not help on the
> upward path, the readiness to join the cry against the unpopular,
> the secret motive in almost every action. The Wyvernians seem
> to me in retrospect to have been the least spontaneous, in that
> sense the least boyish, society I have ever known. It would
> perhaps not be too much to say that in some boys’ lives
> everything was calculated to the great end of advancement. For
> this games were played; for this clothes, friends, amusements,
> and vices were chosen."
@shashankfromindia said in #18:
>