#10
The replies are directed at what you said.
Otherwise they wouldn't be called replies.
But they are not directed at you.
There is no reason to consider them as offenses.
If someone claims that he/she doesn't agree with something that you said that doesn't mean that he/she is trying to offend you.
When I said don't take it personally I meant that you don't need neither to be hurt nor to try to defend yourself.
Your effort to misinterpret the moderator's post about reporting a cheater showed that you were inclined to defend yourself no matter that there was no reason to do it even by misinterpreting a very clear sentence.
This post for example is personal.
Because it is not addressed towards something you claimed but towards your behavior.
But anyway what I would like to stress again is that someone pointing out that he/she disagrees with something you said doesn't mean that he/she has any problem with you.
The replies are directed at what you said.
Otherwise they wouldn't be called replies.
But they are not directed at you.
There is no reason to consider them as offenses.
If someone claims that he/she doesn't agree with something that you said that doesn't mean that he/she is trying to offend you.
When I said don't take it personally I meant that you don't need neither to be hurt nor to try to defend yourself.
Your effort to misinterpret the moderator's post about reporting a cheater showed that you were inclined to defend yourself no matter that there was no reason to do it even by misinterpreting a very clear sentence.
This post for example is personal.
Because it is not addressed towards something you claimed but towards your behavior.
But anyway what I would like to stress again is that someone pointing out that he/she disagrees with something you said doesn't mean that he/she has any problem with you.