@llo00oll said in #1:
> I'm sure this has come up before, but I couldn't find a thread of it.
> In a rated game, if someone challenges you and then aborts before the first move, shouldn't that be a loss for them and a win for you? IRL if you are playing someone in a tournament and they don't show up to play then they lose. Right now all that happens is they get a warning they might get a temporary ban, but my time is wasted.
Just to be absolutely clear what everyone is saying, Lichess treats games which are not started in exactly the same way as they are (generally) treated by OTB chess organisations. Ratings will not be adjusted, but in tournaments a win is indeed granted to the opponent for purposes of the tournament only.
I'm reminded of an old article I once read about corruption at the top levels of the game. A notoriously corrupt GM (whom I won't name despite the GM being now dead because I cannot personally vouch for the story's accuracy, but who was named in the article) had agreed beforehand with an opponent in a tournament to throw the game because the opponent needed a win for a title norm. On the day the "game" was due to take place, this GM did not even bother to get out of bed. The tournament organiser, apparently (shocklingly) in league with the GM's opponent, then telephoned his hotel with the information and request: "title norms can only be granted if the games have actually been played, so would Grandmaster M... kindly get dressed, come down to the tournament hall and lose the game properly?" which he did.