Look, im going to get a lot of dislikes for saying this, but, i think both of them are good. You can just make a account on lichess and another on
chess.com and enjoy both of their features.
Lichess:
Infinite puzzles
Less lag
Opening explorer
Analysis
Pretty simple and modern UI
Chess.com:
Lots of variants
More accurate ratings (ratings here are a lot higher than USCF or FIDE ratings)
Infinite premoves during games
Puzzles are generally higher quality
Really good videos
Can't we just enjoy both of them? we don't need to hate the
chess.com community and neither do they have to hate us