@AlwaysShortOnTime27 said in #144:
> I totally appreciate and share your stance to support the blog of
@QueenRosieMary.
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> However, I think it is oversimplifying the underlying problem.
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> It is *not* only the "sexually frustrated men", who are "unable to cope with reality, of women [being] better [...]" (in something).
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> It is everywhere in the real and virtual worlds and it always has been, for centuries.
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> It is in the sciences, in politics, entertainment, sports, and any other segment of public space we can think of, and it doesn't stop on the doorsteps, marking the privacy of homes, which are meant to provide a safe haven for couples and families.
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> "It" is the socially inherited norm of male dominance and entitlement, we (almost) all have more or less been subjected to, our whole lifes. It is engraved in many western languages, social norms, laws, traditions and values. It is so deep engraved in (almost) all of us, that we are having a hard time, even realizing "it", oftentimes.
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> It's hard, wrapping our heads around the fact, that women's rights to vote, to pursue an academic education, to choose a profession, to have the right to divorce their spouse and similar essential rights, did not exist only a few decades ago. In Germany (where I live), it was only in 1977 (a few years after I was born), when a judicial reform cancelled mens "right" to terminate their wives job (i.e. when they felt, that the wife didn't care enough, for the household).
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> It seems bizarre, today, but yet, it's how my parents still grew up.
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> However, from changing the code of law to changing how we (consciously and subconsciously) think, feel and behave in our everyday's private lifes is a LONG way, still.
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> Harassment is the toxic tip of the iceberg.
> Mansplaining (is this me, rn? ), parternalism and ignorance often has the same basis.
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> It is not just the sexually frustrated men.
> It is...
> ...the potent man, who feels entitled.
> ...the hurt one, who can't process a personal sleight.
> ...the common man, craving acknowledgement.
> ...the simple man, who's not much aware and just follows the footsteps of his parents.
> It is all (most) of us, at times.
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> Me: An old white privileged man.
Thank you for this excellent and thoughtful comment!