I am playing 15 games but can se only 9. It seems that those after 9 games never shows up. Is there a max on games played?
The ones most needing a move show up higher in the list. So for example those in which you are not to move will be lower down, and those with more time to move will be below those in which you have less time. If you have more than 9 games in which you are on the move then the only way I have found to get to those after the first 9 is to make moves in the games I can see.
You can see them on your profile page:
lichess.org/@/LifeDrive/playing