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Life as a Veterinary Surgeon - Part 1 - Busting the Myths

Hi!
Great blog!

You mentioned the profession and your background has taught you a lot about life and death.
Do you think it also helps you cope with human losses in your environment?
Or are those completely different from each other?
@Geelse_zot said in #21:
> Hi!
> Great blog!
>

Thanks!

> You mentioned the profession and your background has taught you a lot about life and death.
> Do you think it also helps you cope with human losses in your environment?
> Or are those completely different from each other?

I suppose it has given me a familiarity with death (and new life in the case of animals giving birth), but that is very different from being able to cope. The hardest thing I find about putting a pet to sleep is not the pet, because at that point it is often clear that it is the best thing for the pet as they are suffering and cannot be helped any more, if anything I think it is a relief for them, and for us, as we don't have to witness the suffering anymore. But the associated human grief, as I mentioned in the blog, is so raw and fresh every time, that I think I can never get used to it.

I obviously do my best to make this time as easy as possible for the owners, I don't rush them, and I give them privacy and time to spend alone with their pet to say goodbye, both before and after, if they wish. I give them tissues for their tears and information and resources about how to cope with the bereavement of a pet. I have had some owners so overcome with grief that they cannot even stand up any more and need a chair, or help so they do not collapse on the ground. They are also often embarrassed at such a display of emotion in front of a stranger, so I have to reassure them that this is okay and normal and that even vets are the same when we lose a much-loved pet, even though we see this every day. Often the practice will send a condolence card to the owner as well afterwards.

I am acutely aware that this appointment to euthanise a beloved pet is one that they will remember in detail for the rest of their life, so I better make the experience as bearable as possible, even positive. Interestingly, we get the most thank-you cards, flowers, and chocolates with euthanasia appointments, much more than heroic life-saving surgery or curing a serious illness with medicine. People connect and appreciate that you consider their needs when they are vulnerable, and don't just treat them like a production line, rushing them quickly in and out and on to the next appointment.

Does it help with dealing with the loss of humans in our life? I don't think so, that is always going to be very tough, no matter what. Maybe it does a little in that it gives us a sense of realism, and maybe we can understand the medical processes and understand what is serious and how things can turn out, but no I don't think it helps much in the sense of coping emotionally.
@CSKA_Moscou said in #19:
> English is not my first language, I have only seen this word two or three times in nature magazines.
>
> (I was talking about all the little songbirds like robins).
>

Passerines is the correct word, I knew what you meant ;)

> concerning parakeets, it's like bullfrogs, pets deliberately released (animal abandonments are on the rise every year, it sickens me). in Spain or Portugal they are parakeets arriving naturally.
>

The last time I was in London for work, I noticed a lot of parakeets in the park, I think that from some birds being released into the wild at the start, they must now be breeding and thriving in the wild. I remember even as a child, visiting my grandparents in London, thet there were flocks of wild parakeets in the parks.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feral_parakeets_in_Great_Britain#:~:text=The%20British%20rose%2Dringed%20parakeet,of%20Kingston%20upon%20Thames%20and

> About the video...
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> It reminds me of the white rhino...
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>

gahhh! pet owners that can't control their dogs but let them chase wildlife and agricultural animals...

>
> Cool!
>

> QRM, I have a question, if an individual brings you a prohibited exotic pet (baby panther, South American parrot, armadillo), after having treated the animal, you have the right not to return it to the owner ?

As far as I know, this has never happened to me, and therefore it is not something I have thought about much. I think if someone brought me an illegal exotic I would seek advice specific to the country I was working in at the time as laws and guidelines can change. "Kidnapping" someone's pet can be legally fraught.

As an example, when I worked in enforcement in the Department of Agriculture, sometimes we might be on a farm and find a horror show, with lots of starved, dead, and/or dying animals (perhaps a situation where we needed to collect evidence and prosecute the farmer). In those cases, while it was obvious that a lot of the animals might need to be put to sleep, we couldn't just shoot everything. First, we would have to call the police and get permission from them to do this since the animals were the property of the farmer and we didn't want to run into problems with criminal damage to the farmer's property. Once we filled in the paperwork and the police had approved it, then we could destroy whichever animals were not able to be helped.
Often in these situations, the police would already be there on the farm with us because the kind of person who starves a whole herd of cows or flock of sheep to death is often the kind of person you need an armed escort to go and see anyway! I would say that in a lot of these cases, the farmer was also a)maybe struggling with mental illness and b) possibly abusing the wife or children as well. Actually, in recent times, there has been more evidence to show a correlation between animal abuse and human abuse.

At the time I was working in this field, we were trying to establish communication links between the Department of Agriculture and the Department of Social Services, but it was very difficult because of data protection reasons.

irishvetjournal.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/2046-0481-61-10-658
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9024712/
revista.drclas.harvard.edu/the-relationship-between-animal-cruelty-and-domestic-violence/

So in answer to your question, I don't know, but I would seek advice first.
Having grown up with lots of different animals/pets around me, it made me realise that death is a normal part of life. I personally did find as a child/adult it did help me cope with the death of my family members/friends.

I strongly believe that humans should have the right to end their lives peacefully, when they choose to, if they are suffering/in pain. My argument is that if you let your pet suffer in the same way you would be prosecuted for animal cruelty.
@Buny77 said in #25:
> Having grown up with lots of different animals/pets around me, it made me realise that death is a normal part of life. I personally did find as a child/adult it did help me cope with the death of my family members/friends.
>
> I strongly believe that humans should have the right to end their lives peacefully, when they choose to, if they are suffering/in pain. My argument is that if you let your pet suffer in the same way you would be prosecuted for animal cruelty.

When it comes to pain at the end of life it is always difficult to decide when the time has come to put your pet to sleep. But if you listen to your heart and the advice of a trusted vet you can't go that wrong. When it comes to human the wishes of the dying person of course are important. But with your pet it is important too. If your pet has pain but you feel it has not given up the fight and still there are some nice moments, then your heart will tell you to wait and observe.
@QueenRosieMary said in #24:
> Passerines is the correct word, I knew what you meant ;)
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> The last time I was in London for work, I noticed a lot of parakeets in the park, I think that from some birds being released into the wild at the start, they must now be breeding and thriving in the wild. I remember even as a child, visiting my grandparents in London, thet there were flocks of wild parakeets in the parks.
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> en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feral_parakeets_in_Great_Britain#:~:text=The%20British%20rose%2Dringed%20parakeet,of%20Kingston%20upon%20Thames%20and
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> gahhh! pet owners that can't control their dogs but let them chase wildlife and agricultural animals...
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> As far as I know, this has never happened to me, and therefore it is not something I have thought about much. I think if someone brought me an illegal exotic I would seek advice specific to the country I was working in at the time as laws and guidelines can change. "Kidnapping" someone's pet can be legally fraught.
>
> As an example, when I worked in enforcement in the Department of Agriculture, sometimes we might be on a farm and find a horror show, with lots of starved, dead, and/or dying animals (perhaps a situation where we needed to collect evidence and prosecute the farmer). In those cases, while it was obvious that a lot of the animals might need to be put to sleep, we couldn't just shoot everything. First, we would have to call the police and get permission from them to do this since the animals were the property of the farmer and we didn't want to run into problems with criminal damage to the farmer's property. Once we filled in the paperwork and the police had approved it, then we could destroy whichever animals were not able to be helped.
> Often in these situations, the police would already be there on the farm with us because the kind of person who starves a whole herd of cows or flock of sheep to death is often the kind of person you need an armed escort to go and see anyway! I would say that in a lot of these cases, the farmer was also a)maybe struggling with mental illness and b) possibly abusing the wife or children as well. Actually, in recent times, there has been more evidence to show a correlation between animal abuse and human abuse.
>
> At the time I was working in this field, we were trying to establish communication links between the Department of Agriculture and the Department of Social Services, but it was very difficult because of data protection reasons.
>
> irishvetjournal.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/2046-0481-61-10-658
> www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9024712/
> revista.drclas.harvard.edu/the-relationship-between-animal-cruelty-and-domestic-violence/
>
> So in answer to your question, I don't know, but I would seek advice first.

it's because on the internet there are lots of rich people like footballers or singers who show off exotic animals which should or are forbidden, often baby pumas, panthers... (I'll spare you the videos of monkeys and of a puppy with mutilated ears that looks like Mickey) and worse, the animals have their claws cut and their teeth filed down and it hurts me to see that. especially , these animals cannot live in an apartment, so what do they do afterwards when they became adults ?? There are quite a few stories (urban legends?) that such specimens of felines would circulate in forests, but would end up dying of hunger or disease. SAD.
> One day, a small muntjac deer was hit on the road outside my house. [...] Other than that, he had been a healthy young buck in good condition. I set about dressing the carcass [...] and hung it up in the garage, [...] for a few days, then marinated it in oil, wine, and spices for another couple of days. We had beautiful venison for quite a while after that!

Your concern is very touching... Waste not, want not. ;)
wow... you must of put a lot of thought into this. why are you putting this on lichess? make a book about it!!