new game start timer on 1st move?

Does anyone else think that there should be a timeout timer set for making the 1st move of a new game so that if your new playing partner fails to make a 1st move within say maybe 90 seconds or whatever that then the game is aborted? Black or White, no 1st move is just left hanging there until you give up and Abort, so it seems like a waste....

If you play in tournaments, there is a timeout timer set for making the first move of a new game.

I do not understand why Black,s clock does not start the moment White makes his first move.

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The new START GAME TIMER, for either Black or White
is WonDeRful, awesome and SO Convenient!!

The old sad days of wondering what on Earth happened
to the person who started a new game but wouldn't play
or sat at your table and then wouldn't make a 1st move
ARE ALL NOW BEHIND US!!

Thank you merciful, tireless workers on/of iChess!!!
We only wish we could cut you a check for all of TIME SAVED
by all of the trillions of users WHO SAT AND WAITED and
then had to finally GIVE UP on the "Not There" playing partner.

Thank you!
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For me it doesn't go far enough, if the start game timer runs down the other player should simply lose.

What happens in an OTB game if the player does not show? (I don't know as I have never played one)

In an over the board game the arbiter starts the clock of white at the agreed starting time. If a player is not in the playing room 1 h after the start of the game, then that player loses by forfeit.

I don't like it. If I feel I am waiting too long for my opponent I can abort. If it's a standard game I might be prepared to wait a couple of minutes for my opponent to turn up - assuming that their seek had been up a while and they had momentarily left to do something else while waiting. So I like it to be up to me when I abort. And I find seeing the timer at the beginning of game a bit irritating - in the sense that it adds a bit of stress. If it doesn't do anything useful, why have it?