pain of losing friends :(

I have lost most dearest friends... of mine
as i promoted to 11 grade
we chose different streams and we got shuffle
we all ate lunch in between class together at the first bench
now all friends have changed as they shuffled in different section
we are group of four and all got into wrong company bad company
they use abuse words now and they became friends with bad children... they ignore me now
they think I am simple child who is very respectful to others and does not use foul words..
I miss that old good days of happiness.. good friends and....
now I am alone in my new section... they all thing I am boring because I am not rude to anyone
just alone ..

does anyone also have experience this way??

Nope. I'm only in 6. Sorry to hear your story

They were nothing more than childhood friends. The only thing you had in common was school. A real friendship is built on an exchange between two people. I don't regret hanging out with my high school friends, but I won't be sad when they leave me. High school friends leave and you stay, and you will only remember them as interesting memories.
I assure you, you will surely find friends in the future. <3

if they left u u shouldn’t care because that means they r not real friends

@JASKIRATSINGH said in #1:
> I have lost most dearest friends... of mine
> as i promoted to 11 grade
> we chose different streams and we got shuffle
> we all ate lunch in between class together at the first bench
> now all friends have changed as they shuffled in different section
> we are group of four and all got into wrong company bad company
> they use abuse words now and they became friends with bad children... they ignore me now
> they think I am simple child who is very respectful to others and does not use foul words..
> I miss that old good days of happiness.. good friends and....
> now I am alone in my new section... they all thing I am boring because I am not rude to anyone
> just alone ..
>
> does anyone also have experience this way??

Keep things in perspective. When I got to 11th grade, one of my best friends was killed by a drunk driver.
Drifting apart sucks, but it could be worse.

EDIT: Little known fact about the clousems: I didn't start swearing until college. Not sure why. But as someone who understands the challenges of avoiding profanity in school, I probably would be skeptical of those who refuse to be friends solely because you don't swear.

@JASKIRATSINGH said in #1:
> they all thing I am boring because I am not rude to anyone
Honestly, are you sure you wanna be friends with them?
I personally don't wanna hang out with rude people.
They are cramping my style.

Remember people judge you by the crowd you associate yourself with.
So if your friends are rude people, others will think you are rude too.
Now surely you don't want people to think you are rude!.
Look around your class, and go hang out with similar minded people. There are bound to be several there with similar experiences of loneliness.

Now using faul words, doesn't make someone a bad person. But choose the words you want to say, regardless of how your peers speak.
Be who you wanna be. Say what you wanna say. Do what you wanna do.
It's your life and your choice, don't let others convince you otherwise.

@JASKIRATSINGH said in #1:
> they use abuse words now and they became friends with bad children... they ignore me now
> they think I am simple child who is very respectful to others and does not use foul words..

Are they really your friends anymore? A true friend lets you be yourself and is loyal to you no matter what the situation (unless you've committed a heinous crime). This sort of friendship is not just formed from playing around with each other and being happy, etc - it needs time and closeness. And it's a 2-way (mutual) relationship. If one side is unwilling to be friends, then friendship is impossible. You will have to move on from those friends - there are a lot of others out there that would probably be more than willing to be your friends and let you have a sense of belonging, but you are constricting your view to only these people, which is hurting you. Believe me, even I struggle with moving on when I lose a friend (for example if one of them gets quite upset at me or we just don't have anything to talk to each other anymore and we slowly pull apart) - and it's not always easy. But it's worth it if you know that those people are clearly bad friends for you - which in this case they are.

@JASKIRATSINGH said in #1:
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Ouch. That sucks, happened to me recently. I got better at chess, which offended the once best player in my club. Some people will become hostile towards you; you gotta stay away from them.

Find others to talk to, and tell your "friends" you care about them. Maybe they'll come back

Gives you a chance to make better and unforgettable friends.

People who get into bad company either realise what they're doing isn't "mature" or they realise it is.
They act accordingly.
You know what is your path, follow it.

I lost a freind and though he was not a true one I still feel sad coz we used to be besties