Lichess is a free Web site maintained by people volunteering their time, and those people can't be responsible for every little idiosyncratic thing that every individual user performs. Why is it more reasonable to expect Lichess developers to volunteer their time to solve this problem for you than it is to expect you to either not use multiple tabs or deal with the consequences if you do?
Maybe the answer is incredibly simple and somebody will feel like doing it and you will get your wish. I have no idea. But I wouldn't be surprised if - indeed I would expect - this is not something high up the priority list.
I personally can't see any reason to have multiple tabs of the tournament open if you don't want to be paired with someone anyway, so there might be a Lichess developer or two who are also unimpressed by your complaints.
"If the developers wanted people to be automatically paired up, they wouldnt offer us the opportunity to "pause" or "return to tournament"."
This is such a nonsense argument. It is your own actions that are causing you to be automatically paired up.
Maybe the answer is incredibly simple and somebody will feel like doing it and you will get your wish. I have no idea. But I wouldn't be surprised if - indeed I would expect - this is not something high up the priority list.
I personally can't see any reason to have multiple tabs of the tournament open if you don't want to be paired with someone anyway, so there might be a Lichess developer or two who are also unimpressed by your complaints.
"If the developers wanted people to be automatically paired up, they wouldnt offer us the opportunity to "pause" or "return to tournament"."
This is such a nonsense argument. It is your own actions that are causing you to be automatically paired up.