I have noticed this somewhat worrying thing

#30 It all ends up on the individual and what they think is correct. I do understand how many more reports there's gonna be, but I hope the mods will be able to cope up with them. I have no say in this.

How did I Ever insult you Searchingyou? Number 1, I carefully write your name WITHOUT the ping so I don't need to bother you. The only way you find out about it, is because your stalking me and tracking my entire forum history. Every time I wrote your name, I didn't insult you. All i said was to stop bothering me and my friends. Here's the entire story. Searchingyou has been spending a lot of time insulting and shaming my friends. Search his forum history "CreativeThinking" and you'll see just how many times he's done so. His friend EVEN Made a public ACCUSATION writing a petition to get my friends Obladie, Tihun, CreativeThinking all banned. When asked to provide proof, he evades the question and changes the topic. So when I really disliked how he was being so mean to close friends, I couldn't help but jump in to defend. Bad choice. As soon as I jumped in, I was suddenly a troll now. here's some link proof now:

lichess.org/forum/off-topic-discussion/my-fiance-told-me-something-funny?page=5#41

Ssays CreativeThinking is the worst person on lichess

lichess.org/forum/off-topic-discussion/i-miss-you?page=3#26

Publicly shames Tihun, who is only trying to discuss because she is publicly shaming him and creativethinking.

He called me annoying and spoiled, knowing not a thing about my life.

He keeps on saying that I'm pinging him. Check my forum history and write "Searchingyou" Not one time is there a @ in front of his name.

lichess.org/forum/lichess-feedback/adverse-feedback?page=3#26

Here he said "your stupidity" referring to me saying i'm stupid.

lichess.org/forum/off-topic-discussion/searching-you?page=5

insults obladie just for misunderstanding her gender.

I could go on and on and on. The easiest way is to simply search my, creativethinking, obladie, and tihun into her search history. She insults us a lot.

And disclaimer, yes I want to resolve this in DMs so I don't have to get the public involved, but she wont do it.

Again as mentioned earlier, why don’t you just paste everything that you just said and report her if you feel she has done something wrong.
Don’t judge others, just report if you feel that something they did is wrong and if lichess agrees with you then the user is reported.

@YohaanSethNathan Thank you for the wise words. I will do so.

Oh again this guy komokid wanted to start an argue.... as he is doing on so many threads against me.... to write someone's name and later doesn't accept that he offended someone.... when i check forums, i see he is writing my name... that's why i know that he is trying to spoil my image in this community but for this thing also he doesn't accept his faults and making blame on me for "stalking" because actually he is doing this "stalk" and i request to mods to sort out this issues.... i hope this site is safe for ladies and girls, now i don't feel myself safe from komokid because he is stalking and harassing me since last 10 to 15 days on Lichess. And i'm writing this thing in public so that others also can know situation with mods.

Guys just stop, I think it’s sorted out now. I explain to him everything in post #34.

I have not done that??? This is outrageous. The only reason I ever got involved, is because I have every right to defend my friends when they get brutally insulted by you. I want to resolve this. You do not. What can I do? DO you think I feel safe with you stlaking me? I never ever NEVER pinged you. STop making that lie to make me look bad. And is telling you to stop being such a bully insulting you suddenly?

What is your response to post 32? all that proof. Give yoru defense.

And again #36 , #38, #39 please don’t judge others and just report them if you think they have done something wrong. If lichess agrees with you the user will be reported.