@TooMuchIPA said in #29:
> Honestly your calm and thoughtful response has given me a bit of clarity. I probably jumped the gun getting upset with lichess. I think you are correct on your assessment and maybe the community will have to accept this for the time being
Thanks for that mate. Yeh, I felt the same way when once I got a message from lichess saying that I was, funnily enough, sandbagging!!! - I'd quit a few games after 2 or 3 moves due to a frenzy of pre-moving that I was doing in a sort of state of frustration, of course which inevitably didn't pan out well for my games - and this was misinterpreted by the lichess bots as something I was doing on purpose to lower my rating, where the reality was that my quickly declining rating was just adding to my anxiety, and I found myself caught in a spiral. So I thought this automatically generated message was unfair. But later on I kinda thought, there's like 17,000 games being played at any given time, let alone how many accounts there must be - so I realised it would be near impossible for a site this size to even get close to getting everything right. But at least those bots are out there, and us getting sent erroneous messages sometimes is just a byproduct of a system that is well intentioned. - but we take these things personally sometimes - that's just human nature - but we needn't. (Easier said than done of course!)
Have a great day mate.
> Honestly your calm and thoughtful response has given me a bit of clarity. I probably jumped the gun getting upset with lichess. I think you are correct on your assessment and maybe the community will have to accept this for the time being
Thanks for that mate. Yeh, I felt the same way when once I got a message from lichess saying that I was, funnily enough, sandbagging!!! - I'd quit a few games after 2 or 3 moves due to a frenzy of pre-moving that I was doing in a sort of state of frustration, of course which inevitably didn't pan out well for my games - and this was misinterpreted by the lichess bots as something I was doing on purpose to lower my rating, where the reality was that my quickly declining rating was just adding to my anxiety, and I found myself caught in a spiral. So I thought this automatically generated message was unfair. But later on I kinda thought, there's like 17,000 games being played at any given time, let alone how many accounts there must be - so I realised it would be near impossible for a site this size to even get close to getting everything right. But at least those bots are out there, and us getting sent erroneous messages sometimes is just a byproduct of a system that is well intentioned. - but we take these things personally sometimes - that's just human nature - but we needn't. (Easier said than done of course!)
Have a great day mate.