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Why affection happens again and again?

Well, i felt attachment for 10 men in my life and it is happening continuously so just thinking why......
Think about this: No doubt you will meet several people and be intimate friends with them, so naturally you would develop a fondness for them
Trust me: you don't want me to answer this one. I'd use an economics framework.
@InvincibleX17 #15

What is bad in it? I didn't make 10 boy friends, just i felt attachment with them and this is natural... i don't feel anything wrong in it... even they all felt same emotional bonding with me but we never crossed our limits... i respect my culture and values.... i understand morality... that was just attraction... i didn't touch them.... so just stop to think anything wrong about my character.
And i'm faithful so i don't hide whatever i feel or think.... i'm so bold to accept my all thoughts because i don't care people will judge me or not... i'm not wrong so why should i feel guilty for feeling attachment so many times ? Still i can feel attraction for effective personality and it happens naturally....
Life is complicated,And So is love? True love isn’t between a man and a woman,It’s between two beautiful souls.It is quite normal to have attachment/emotional bonding with more than 1 men.It isn’t weird when you know your limits. Shruti,You mentioned that you knew your limits,so there isn’t anything weird in having emotional attachment with more people.Doesnt matter how many girls a boy flirts with,At the end of the day he would think about only one girl.So infatuation/affection or whatever we name it,happens quite frequently.And there’s is nothing to worry about.

But what I would tell is attachments often aren’t good.They are the root cause of problems.Attachment gives us pain,Problems in relationship,and what not? Be honest in love.True love is born from understanding.I believe that your partner understands you better than anyone else.There is the true love.Our heart changes its rhythmic pattern once in a while.And that’s because of our emotion.The more happier,excited we are,the faster our heart beats. The same way a few humans would develop feelings with more than one person.As long as we know our limits,There’s nothing to worry about :)

Sorry for the long paragraph.Have a chicken day.
@Searchingyou , you are a nice person and all...but nowadays your are being kindda mean and rude.... @InvincibleX17 , was just joking dont take it seriously....You say you are really bold but giving such a big response [ and also boasting about yourself] says that you are not bold and can get hurt easily...Rather than talking try thinking for the ans of your own question...you always don't have to show that you are a good person through words...just prove it with your actions [ action here means : By helping others, advising them , sharing thoughts, being kind etc.. ] I am not taking anyone's side here...I am just giving advice and telling the truth....

Have a nice day!

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